Cant get the stand on and off my scooter by myself its really stiff. any suggestions how to fix this?

The stand probably just needs greased at the pivot points. Most are held on with just 4 or 6 at most bolts. Take it to ANY mechanic and I,m sure they,ll help you out. You,re looking at about �20 tops, and watch what they do. That way you can DIY the next time.